California Fires and State of Mind
Friends,
I apologize for not writing lately. As many of you have seen Southern California is going through a few fires that is destroying homes and anything else that gets in its way.
For me right now this statement is not true. What is true is that we lost the Heads Up Therapy on Horseback Ranch that I am president of but the tense of the statement is not accurate for my situation.
An update to my current situation with the ranch is that we lost the residence, the horses survived and our Operation's Director is badly burned but stable.
I am very busy with getting things for the family and working on plans to rebuild Heads Up and I wanted to make sure I shared something with you all as well.
Language is an important part of creating change. Most of the time the clients have associated with their problem in the present. In the statement I made at the beginning you can see that the wording is in the present but it is disassociated.
One secret is to change the tense of the issue to a past tense. An example of this is so what was it like? Next you change the direction of focus to the future and the change desired. So what will it be like when you ______ and make sure to have them associate with the solution. Then you bring the solution to the present tense of now that you have ________ how does it feel.
The direction of focus has to change to the future and to where they want to go. Many times you will find that people tend to live in the past focusing on what did not work and creating it all over again. In the law of attraction we attract what we think of most. If we think of what we do not want most then we attract that.
The important thing about thoughts are that whether they are true or not your body still lives the thoughts energy.
Sorry I do not have more time to write. I hope you understand that getting our family and team back to helping special needs families is important to me at this minute. Have a wonderful week my friends and take time to enjoy what you have. Create memories that you can have always just in case and remember that your state of mind is created by you alone.
Michael G. Holt, Ph.D www.docmagi.com www.headsuptherapy.com Certified Hypnotherapy Instructor Master NLP Practictioner




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